Facts about Relationship

Any relation has the following four basic points:
1. Love
2. Understanding
3. Responsibility
4. Respect

The levels of the basic points in each relation vary.
For example, you might be close with a friend, but you might think that he/she is not responsibile. You might not show the same level of love to a stranger when compared to your family members.

The levels of these four pillars in any relation are bound to change with individuals. But when we call someone close, like family members, the height of these pillars should be tall for a long lasting relation. If any of the pillar is uneven, then the relation constructed on these four pillars is going to dilly-dally, often.

Every pillar, has it's own importance. And the right amount of it is required in each relation. Again, too much of love with no responsibility will not help in sustaining the relation, for example.

Next time, you have a crack in the relation, which you think is important, check which pillar is going weak and correct it.